feat(task): support --recursive & --filter flags

[satyarohith]

Work in progress.

We should just have --filter flag maybe?

TODOs:

• scope log lines by workspace name
• tests

Towards #24991

[shanipribadi]

@satyarohith for pnpm, --filter alone implies -r (you can put pnpm run --filter '*' dev without needing the -r flag), and -r alone is equal to --filter ''.
for bun it doesn't have the --recursive/-r flag, and just uses --filter '' flag.