Refactor CI to return better results faster #287

Job	Run time
Formatting Check	31s
Build and test (windows-latest, openssl_1.1)	20m 37s
Build and test (windows-latest, openssl_3)	20m 38s
Build and test (windows-latest, boringssl)	20m 35s
Build and test (ubuntu-latest, openssl_1.1)	5m 28s
Build and test (ubuntu-latest, openssl_3)	11m 4s
Build and test (ubuntu-latest, boringssl)	9m 10s
Build and test (macos-latest, openssl_1.1)	11m 7s
Build and test (macos-latest, openssl_3)	11m 51s
Build and test (macos-latest, boringssl)	14m 50s
Interop test	1s
Build with clang-tidy	1s
	2h 5m 53s

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