fix(vips): skip ignored listeners (backport of #8937)

[kumahq]

Automatic cherry-pick of #8937 for branch release-2.2

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   pkg/dns/vips_allocator.go
	modified:   pkg/dns/vips_allocator_test.go
	modified:   pkg/plugins/runtime/k8s/controllers/endpoints.go
	modified:   pkg/test/resources/samples/dataplane_samples.go

Unmerged paths:
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	deleted by us:   test/e2e_env/kubernetes/graceful/change_service.go

[jakubdyszkiewicz]

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