Check which other PRs are changing Node`s start code

[luminosuslight]

We should check which other developers are currently working on the Node startup code and inform them about our proposed changes.

I found this RFC / PR by accident:
nodejs#17058

"Yeah, the key issue is that node.js startup is a Tangled mess of spaghetti code right now. From the way cli args and env vars are processed, to the order of start up events, etc. I've been looking at introducing a proper command line args parser and start up options isolation that will be tied to the Environment rather than using global state, then will be separating out the initialization of the process object. Once that is done, we should be able to refactor the bootstrap script into distinct phases."

"Status update on this side: I've started working on refactoring the native bootstrap lifecycle.... starting with how configuration and command line options are handled.... specifically, moving away from use of global variables to using a NodeOptions class associated with the Environment. From there, I will be working through a refactoring of how the process object is bootstrapped."