[Bug] ClientManagerImpl 的 rpcClientTableLock 存在异常网络情况的写锁hang住，导致与broker交互全面阻塞

[crazywen]

Before Creating the Bug Report

• I found a bug, not just asking a question, which should be created in GitHub Discussions.

• I have searched the GitHub Issues and GitHub Discussions of this repository and believe that this is not a duplicate.

• I have confirmed that this bug belongs to the current repository, not other repositories of RocketMQ.

Programming Language of the Client

Java

Runtime Platform Environment

CentOS Linux 7 (Core)

RocketMQ Version of the Client/Server

server: rocketmq-all-5.1.4
client: 5.0.7

Run or Compiler Version

java version "1.8.0_251"
Java(TM) SE Runtime Environment (build 1.8.0_251-b08)
Java HotSpot(TM) 64-Bit Server VM (build 25.251-b08, mixed mode)

Describe the Bug

在生产运行环境发现应用在正常运行中，各模块与MQ的交互都停止了，mq客户端的相关日志都没有输出，重启应用模块后恢复，查看堆栈发现都卡在 ClientManagerImpl 的 rpcClientTableLock 写锁

Steps to Reproduce

当前已知的是，rocketMq 5.X 版本存在暴力探活造成的内存泄漏（https://github.com/apache/rocketmq/issues/8875），进而造成相关网络链接异常，可以导致客户端链接全面卡住

What Did You Expect to See?

ClientManagerImpl 与 MqBroker的交互不应该被部分异常的网络链接所阻塞

What Did You See Instead?

当前应用端受到部分与mqbroker的异常链接清理，全面阻塞了与mqbroker的交互。

Additional Context

No response